Monday, June 02, 2008
We're official Montanians!
The weather here changes constantly, which is actually nice because if it is chilly and rainy, it doesn't stay that way for long. And also, just because clouds may be hovering all around the mountains, it could be perfectly sunny where we are. It is great not to be hot all the time! (Refer back to this post next February when my arse has been frozen for months ;-)
I kept my promise to Roger and we purchased 2 really nice mountain bikes and all the acoutrements within 24 hours of our arrival (pics later). Roger has been doing research for months on bikes, as that was his "cherry on top" for this trip. I would have been happy with something from T*rget, but no, he insisted I have disc brakes, etc. So he has a "Specialized" brand bike & I have a "Giant" brand. It was worse than car shopping, as Roger wanted to discuss every aspect with the bike guy....oy. I was getting bored after 3 hours, so I went to the car to make a couple of calls. Roger comes out to the car without bikes & said he thought he'd sleep on it.....duh...I don't think so! I told him to get his hind end back in there & buy the blasted bikes & we could go riding that day!!! Yeesh. So he "obeyed" and we came right home and took a short ride. Yesterday we rode a really nice bike trail for an hour & it was a perfect day for it. Ahhh, Montana.
Today we enjoyed our 2nd Little League baseball game....our nephew has been doing a great job & it has been alot of fun.
Simon the cat has been busily attacking the black lab, Duke....who wants nothing more than to play with Simon....Actually I think Simon likes attacking the poor dog & is happily asserting his dominance. Ha!
I cannot get over how nice in general people are. It is an incredible change for us. I really really love that part. But I also really really really really miss my friends :-( And I'm sure as each day passes I'll miss them even more. I think it helps alot knowing that so many friends and family want to come for a visit (and who knows.....they may take a page from our book and ....
LEAP!
Wednesday, May 28, 2008
Wednesday in Sheridan, Wyoming
We continued on through the Badlands......wow, was that an amazing place! Oh my gosh.....it is such an alien landscape and incredible. Just incredible. Natalie earned her 2nd Junior Ranger badge there. Then it was on to Mt. Rushmore (Nat earned her third badge there!) Another incredible sight. It was FREEZING up there & foggy/misty....so my pictures won't be great, but I think some will turn out ok.
Then on for another long drive to Sheridan. We're at a brand new Hampton Inn and it is heavenly.....and we had a great meal at a local pub, so that was fun.
Most folks might dislike the trek across the Dakotas and Wyoming, but we found it incredibly fascinating. The Dakotas have enormous farm lands and it appeared very clean and neat. The prairies are so vast. And Wyoming has been interesting too.....it starts out green and with little hills....then turns into prairies, mountains, hills, canyons and every other landscape you can imagine. It changed topography many times. And you can see forever.....and I do mean forever. It is an awesome country we live in.
While we have enjoyed our long journey, we have finally reached the point where Roger and I are anxious to arrive at our destination. We will get up early tomorrow morning, get breakfast here at the hotel and head for Billings, Bozeman, Butte and finall Missoula. It will be about an 8-hour drive. I suppose I'll drive some tomorrow. Can you believe that Roger has driven every single mile of this trip? He has let me unwind and rest and I have appreciated it so much. And those of you who know me will find that amazing because I am ALWAYS the one who drives in our family. See --- I CAN let go of my control! ha! An new life.....and I've already begun!
See you in Montana! And I promise to post some pics or some slideshows as soon as possible.
Monday, May 26, 2008
Kickin' it in Iowa
We then went across the road to the Liberty Memorial...which was so fitting since it is Memorial Day. It was a very beautiful monument erected after WWI.
We hit the road & just before we got out of the great state of Missouri, Roger was pulled over for speeding....darn! He had been watching his speed very carefully & unfortunately got side tracked as I was looking at the map for tomorrow's adventure. He was going 81 in a 70 zone....the policeman was very nice though and knocked his speed down one MPH, so his ticket would be slightly less :-) Nothing like setting a great example for your kidlets as you sit in the patrol car ha!!
We just had a light dinner & I saw this computer available at the hotel....perfecto! I really do love hearing from all of you...it is so nice to know my friends are out there encouraging us (cuz boy howdy do I need it from time to time!)
Hugs and kisses from the creat corn state! Onward ho tomorrow to Sioux City and beyond! Up next is the World's Largest Prairie Dog, the Corn Palace, etc.! And maybe, just maybe, if we're LUCKY....another train station/museum! Woohoo!
Nighty night!
I'll post pictures later.
Sunday, May 25, 2008
Paying Homage to the King....
On Saturday, we toured the Anheiser-Busch facility in St. Louis....we had alot of fun, and of course the best part was the beer sampling at the end of the tour :-) I have a much great appreciation for Bud now!
On Saturday, we also visited Union Station train station in downtown St Louis.....wow was that a beautiful place! I can't wait to play with my photos & post some in black & white of the architectural details. It was really a lovely structure. There was also a shopping mall attached...Natalie and Jilly decided to jump on this trampoline/rope thingy. Nat was not exactly thrilled once she got on it, but she gamely jumped for the duration of her ride. Jilly had a great time and jumped higher and higher!
Gateway to the West (Friday)
We're having a great time.
Tuesday, May 20, 2008
Loaded down and truckin'....
So far things have gone pretty smoothly....which is kinda scary. Hmmm
Leaving you with a few parting photos.....see you on the flip side!!
- Anna at our last trip to Fairhope -
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Later!
Sunday, April 20, 2008
Whew! What a Month!!















Friday, March 14, 2008
The Last Best Place
"The Last Best Place" has called us, so we have heeded the call to completely uproot our family and move to the Big Sky Country of Montana.
Many have wondered what has brought us to this place where we would consider such a move. We're certainly not wealthy, we have no specific jobs waiting for us. But we do have family there. And the fact that it is a beautiful part of the country helps, too.
The bottom line is we want a different lifestyle for us and our 2 girls. We want to be able to do more activities outdoors. And yes, we are aware that the winters in Montana are "slightly different" than the winters of coastal Alabama. But we find that living in the south, we are so hot and miserable for 5 months, the girls are eaten alive by mosquitoes, we don't go to the beach very often, and we find that we don't get outdoors much. We want to experience 4 seasons instead of 1.5. We want to hike (5 minutes away), learn how to flyfish, snowboard, ski, iceskate and sled. We want to learn how to shovel snow. Well, maybe not that, but I guess it is good exercise :-) We want to have our children grow up in a more highly educated city. And we want to share our lives with our family.
I had an epiphany last summer after we visited Montana. I have had a couple of other "epiphanies" in my life. One resulted in our adoption of Natalie. And the next one lasted years and told us to wait on our desired adoption of a second child....I had signed two adoption contracts, started several homestudies.....but "something" kept telling me to stop. I finally made the conscious decision to put everything on hold with a second adoption until the reason revealed itself to me. And it did. In the Fall of 2005, I kept having this nagging dream....it said our next daughter was between 2 and 4 years old, with a heart condition. Well, it kept nagging at me, although we had never considered a toddler adoption, much less one with a heart condition! Finally a few months later I'd had enough of the nagging sensation....so I started researching the SN adoptions. And voila! There she was! The instant I saw Anna's picture, I KNEW she was the reason I had been holding back. So I fought for her and we were able to bring her into our lives in 2006. She was almost 2 1/2 when we adopted her. And she had a mild heart condition. Check.
What was the Montana epiphany? It was again, a recurring, nagging, loud voice in my dreams.
That's it.....it was under the surface for weeks until finally it was clear one morning (like someone had yelled the phrase to me). Duh! Well alrighty then. So here we are. We have leapt.
I sure hope that net appears!
Friday, March 07, 2008
SOLD!
But wait......the new owner wants to close in.....
TWO WEEKS!
Ack!
Head....is....spinning.....
We'll make this work, but boy do we have our work cut out for us!
Anyone want to help pack?
Thursday, March 06, 2008
Achoo! We've had the flu!
Lots to report.....but more to follow......
Teaser/Newsflash -- our 1908 bungalow is now up for sale. So, if you know anyone who wants a really cute, completely restored bungalow in our historic area, send them our way! Let's get this thing sold!! Wish us luck!
Tuesday, February 05, 2008
After 2 1/2 LONG years.....
Not THREE......
....but FOUR!
Yep, that's right....FOUR painted sides to our house!!!!

Hallelujah! I was beginning to think I was forever going to have the lovely green on the front, and peeling beige on the sides & back house for the rest of my days. After MUCH insistence on my part, my extremely picky DH (who thinks no one can paint as perfectly as he can) finally found some painters who were up to the task of grinding (to the bare wood), priming, caulking, glazing windows and top coating to DH's high (make that HIGH) expectations. We are very pleased with their work & so happy to finally have it done that I have actually convinced him to hire them to finish the interior painting (which is "only" trim).....but that includes taking down and sanding 8 doors, as well as picture molding, 10" baseboards, 12 windows with 6" molding & all those corresponding door frames. It never gets done by us because he is so busy restoring his clients' homes & making them lovely....while ours just sits here waiting for the love. Oh well....you know how it is with the cobbler's kids & their lack of shoes :-)
We've also been busily cleaning out & purging....starting with the girls room......too many toys! So we took everything out of the toy closet, under the beds & all around the room. We managed to fill the entire full-size Tundra truckbed with goodies for Goodwill. Can you imagine? Yeesh. Now the only thing on the floor is furniture feet.....this has been for 10 days now!
Breaking news! Anna's hair seems to be growing! And SHE is growing too. We measured her just a few days ago & she was the same height as she was on 12/8/07....but today she was over 1/2" taller than a week ago! As she says...." I'm NOT a baby! I'm a big girl!!" She gets extremely annoyed with being referred to as anything smallish....and will burst into uncontrollable tears in an instant if she feel insulted. Too cute.
Oh! This is in our town right now! It is very exciting and we hope to be able to see the final result on Friday. The house is only a few miles from us.....1100 square feet, 3 br, ONE bath for 8 people! They whisked the family of 8 off to the SuperBowl for the week & they'll come home to a new 3500 sq ft house with full furnishings, etc. Can't wait! Go Ty!
More later on that subject, hopefully with pics of Ty & the new house, etc. Isn't it amazing that they can bulldoze a house....have the foundation poured at 6 a.m. and the framing done by 7 p.m.? wow.
Saturday, January 19, 2008
Flying, bikes and moon pies
Bullet posts:
- Natalie and I have been recovering from bronchitis the past two weeks. I'm feeling human today, but sadly was disappointed last weekend when I could not pull myself together enough to go to the Bruce Hornsby/Ricky Scaggs concert we had tickets for :-( Oh well....next month is Keb'Mo. Surely I'll be well enough then!
- Last night was our first Mardi Gras parade! R's niece fly in for a visit from the Big Apple, so she had first-hand knowledge of how her "country-cousins" spend their evenings :-)
- Natalie has finally conquered her bike! It is like she woke up with balance one day & now she's a natural....thank goodness! We're so proud of her. And Anna can almost ride Nat's old bike with training wheels....she's just about 1 inch too short ... but "I'M A BIG GIRL!" she will proclaim.
- It is so cold & dreary here today...I've been praying for snow, but it is just a teensy bit north of us. Dagnabbit!
- It is so interesting to hear about cousin Lauryn's life in Manhattan. Apartment living in the Big Apple and life in general is SO different than life anywhere else. And N had it right when she exclaimed that we live in suburban area & Lauryn lives in a VERY urban area....right she is. I'm happy to see that she does pay attention in school.
- Speaking of school, N is still making A's......good girl!
- And Anna is SO smart and a very fast learner. A bit on the sassy side, but hey, what's life if you don't have TWO sassy sistas in your household??
- OK, gotta scoot....Roger is pushing me out of the way to do some online shopping at LLBe*ns.
Monday, December 31, 2007
Out with the old....in with the new
Monday, December 24, 2007
Changes
Well here we are....another rush to the finish line.....I absolutely hate this feeling of rushing, etc. It is ridiculous & I long for a simpler life. That is our family's goal this coming year. I hope that in one year we will attain the simplicity and peace in our lives that we so long for. I want the girls to want less and give more. But as their parents, we are the ones responsible for trying to instill that in them. So....time for us to step up to the plate and make the huge changes in our lives. As Gandhi said...."You must be the change you wish to see in the world".
Tuesday, December 18, 2007
Pitiful poster...
I cannot believe I have not posted one time since Thanksgiving.
Pitiful.
Bullets to quickly catch up a bit, then I promise to post some pics and maybe even a video:
- Mom is much better & went home from the hospital the day after Thanksgiving.
- Roger survived (barely) his 12 hour drive to Florida alone with 2 kids, but it was not easy on him. Imagine being a man, alone, with a 3 year old girl and an 8 year old girl....how about those bathroom breaks? Hmmmm. They got it figured out, but again....not easy.
- I'm pretty much done with my Christmas shopping, baking.
- Some day I'm going to have a truly pleasant and relaxing December. Promise!
- Natalie is an amazing basketball player! First game, she scored the first basket, and several others, including a freethrow shot. Second game, she scored several baskets & has become quite a scrapper (read agressively stealing the ball & grabbing the rebounds for a fast break!) This is my baby who could not bounce a basketball 2 times in a row a couple of years ago.
- Natalie is also still making A's.
- Anna is going to be a gymnast I think. She is freakishly flexible I'm discovering. She can sit on the floor with her legs straight out in front of her. She tells her toes to "go away toes!".....then she points her toes so far that the soles of her feet are flat on the ground! No bended knees. I guess she has no ankle joints. Very odd.
- I suppose our new "tradition" (meaning...done it one time) of grilling steaks for Christmas dinner is now a firm tradition. Natalie drew a picture depicting our family at Christmas....including a drawing of Roger, donning his steak tongs (or is that a pitchfork) over a grill of steaks :-) He is also sporting a lovely "Don King" style coif.
OK.....at least I have posted SOMETHING. I hope to post again more regularly and include all these pics I've been collecting.
Hugs to all....and to all a good night!
Wednesday, November 21, 2007
Thanksgiving - Party of One :-(
Our family of four, plus one grammy was planning on the long trek to Vero Beach this morning for a great visit with the entire family for a few days, plus the fun of a long-overdue visit with friends. Unfortunately my mom (grammy) was hospitalized with pneumonia yesterday morning, so plans were drastically changed & here I am at my pity party. I wanted Roger to still take the girls so they would be able to visit with their other grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins who are all visiting from as far away as California and New York.
I had no idea that my heart would break into a million pieces as they drove away this morning. I knew I would miss them, of course. But the grief was and continues to be overwhelming.
I've had so many sweet friends offer to either have me attend Thanskgiving dinner, or even just bring me a plate....I'm so grateful for their thoughts and prayers. But for some reason, I just want this to be my Thanksgiving - party of one. I miss my family.
Thursday, November 15, 2007
I am one with the wool...





Wednesday, November 14, 2007
Atlanta Trip
We went to Atlanta last weekend to visit friends and had a wonderful time. We started the weekend off playing at the parks, relaxing with wine and visiting with old friends and their children. We visited Fernbank & the kids got to explore the dinosaurs and a very nice frog exhibit (who knew there were so many kinds of frogs!) Sunday brought our first trip to IKEA, which Roger gamely tolerated for awhile until I suggested he and Britt take all 4 kids to a park & we would catch up with them later :-) They were out of there in a flash & I could relax & take in the IKEA experience.....I did enjoy the Swedish meatball lunch and Natalie actually loved the lingonberry juice! Very unusual for her to try something so unknown.
One of the highlights of our visit was riding thru the very tony neighborhood streets of Decatur on our friend's vintage tractor! He has restored it to it's original condition & we took it out for a spin thru the neighborhood. Needless to say, I'm sure the neighbors are aghast and the country bumpkins driving a tractor (!) down their street! Too funny!!
On Monday morning, we hooked up with our friends, the Laydens, at the Georgia Aquarium. This was our first visit and I highly recommend it! It was truly a lovely adventure and the exhibits were first-class as you can see from the slideshow. My favorite was the tropical tank...it is amazing how brightly colored and patterned the fish are. And they knew exactly how to display the fish to bring out their colors. Beautiful.
We loved seeing the Layden's again.....Natalie and Ian have been anxious to see each other...but they were pretty quiet most of the time :-) Anna and Li Li were two peas in a pod having fun and getting along just great. I can't wait to see them again. Debbie and Dan are always fun to be with....like we've known them forever.






